Welcome, december!

Hello my friends .. how was your day? fun?
how’s your 2011?

is there any ambition or resolution that has not been achieved?

If so, congratulations! You are not alone.
Maybe million of people out there, saw their resolution and might be so happy because some have already achieved,
already full of little notes
or a colorful markers as a sign, that what he/she  wanted was achieved.

but
there are tens of million of others, who even forgot where to put the list of their dreams or even being mourned because many of which have not been achieved.

hey, that’s why we create a list of expectations every year.
When there are not achieved, then we will improve again, better and better in the next year .. Trying to fix it, vowed to ourselves that this time, we will really mean it.

This was the second day in December. Soon we will experience the beginning of another year. We will reopen the new years. But,of course, for us who are Muslims, we’ve experienced it a few weeks ago:
“Selamat Tahun Baru Islam, semoga kita akan semakin menjadi muslim yang lebih baik setiap harinya” *Amin ya rabb
and congratulations to the upcoming new year 2012 ..

we might begin to re-think, what we’ve done in this year. Whether it is running better than previous years? whether it is just so flat.. like you do  walking by your foot but it ends nowhere, or even declined?

This may be a little help for you, to make your check list, what was done or what has been achieved. follow this steps:

1. look back on your writings in the early years (means= your resolution for this year)

2. consider carefully whether you really wrote it specifically? (Example: I want to have a bike in August, in order to make my budget’transportation to the campus, more efficient)

3. Trying to realize that u have your own “small success”. This is also a sign that we are pursuing what we want (my GPA this time should be increased, and in fact in one of the courses, you get an A !) -This “small success” was a blessing for us who are truly determined to achieve something

4. if one is reached, immediately check list or give a small mark with a marker. Like :  smile, angry, or laughing happily icons . Accordance with our  feelings at the time, when we got through its (this does not have to, but it will help)

5. write back in a small paper, what is missing part from the resolution that we want. You can do this for the evaluation’s resolution that you made.


This may be a few tips for you to look back at how far your dreams have been realized in 2011.
see the results, compare .. which are more numerous: the achieved or not achieved?

possibly the result is different for everyone. It could have been very surprising, if it turns out all the desired resolution in  2011 has been reached it
or can also be so surprising when the result that we want is very far from our expectations.

Don’t be sad .. God prepared the best plan in every moment that we experience. If our efforts don’t succeed, God will replace them with extraordinary gifts-that sometimes you do not know where that came from ..

keep on Believing,
XOXO